My Son’s New Four Letter Word

The Fults house has recently elevated a four letter word to rock star status. It flows like water in our house, thanks to our 19 month old son, Hayden. We hear it all day every day. His new favorite word is “cars”, except he usually turns it into a six letter word and pronounces it “carths”.

Just a few weeks ago, I could count on one hand the number of times a day I heard the word “cars”. Now, it is ubiquitous (I love that word); I can’t even tell you how often I hear this word. Driving down the road anytime we see a car, I hear the word. In case you hadn’t figured it out, one passes countless cars on even the shortest trip. It is as if he is stuck on repeat in the back seat, cars, cars, cars, cars…..

He loves to ride in cars, he loves to play with cars, he loves to make car noises, but more than anything he loves to watch the Disney/Pixar movie Cars. The movie basically stays on at our house indefinitely. It seems our television is stuck in a never ending cars loop. When he wakes up in the morning, the first thing he says is, you guessed it, cars. Even when he isn’t sitting down watching the movie, he still wants it on as ambiance.

After a couple of weeks on this steady diet of Cars, my wife and I started to notice something. Without really even trying, we have the movie memorized. I am almost certain if you play the movie on mute I could do all of the dialogue. We even quote the movie pretty often. Lightning McQueen (“a precision instrument of speed and aerodynamics”) has permanently invaded my conscious and subconscious.

The fact that I have memorized this movie over the span of a couple of weeks made me realize something. If we want to develop a skill, become better at something, or grow in certain areas it takes repetition and doggedness. The problem, all too often, is we are quitters. In fact, I will go as far as to say we are a generation of quitters.

I think my generation has a problem with quitting. We have a problem with wanting other people to do things for us. We have a problem with being committed and mustering up the moxie to trudge ahead. When the going gets tough, so often, we decide to stop. We quit our marriages, we bail on our jobs, we ditch the diets, we leave the goals for the New Year by the way side in February, we go to church when it is convenient, we start blogs and write three posts and then we are done, we find new friends when the current ones upset us, we stop witnessing when we get shut down.. I could ramble on and on about the many things we quit, myself included, but I think you get the point.

How different would our lives look, would our families look, would our world look, if we were finishers? If we decided to push through, challenge ourselves, be committed, and be finishers, instead of jumping ship when things get hard? If we keep trying, and trying, and trying we might surprise ourselves. If we just keep getting up when we are stuck, we might accomplish some really amazing things.  If we stay committed, even when we don’t feel like it, have the time, or are tired, we might just be glad we did.

Repetition. Practice. Commitment. Doggedness. These are important words.

I press on to reach the end of the race and receive the heavenly prize for which God, through Christ Jesus, is calling us. –Philippians 3:14

Walk good. Live wise. Be blessed.
Josh

What have you quit that you need to pick back up?

4 Comments

  • efchristi says:

    I am from a older generation, like dirt I am old, where we learned early on in life to finish what you start. Odd as it sounds, my generation is filled with finishers and cleaner upper’s. We often talk among ourselves, as we watch the work ethic of our younger generation, wondering how we can ever turn our country over to a group of quitters. Unfortunately, I am still going in to finish up something the younger folks lost interest in. I thought I retired and put it all behind me lol.
    I don’t mean to demean your generation, Josh, you are three generations behind me, but you ‘kids’ think differently and have an outlook on life that, to me, is a disaster waiting to happen. I applaude you for seeing this yourself and I hope you can open the eyes of more people in your age group and turn it around. If I can help please let me know, I will be happy to help where I can. Maybe a few stories from my days with grandfather would help.

    Great post Josh!

    Walk daily with God at your side!

    Your friend,

    Ed

    • Josh Fults says:

      Yea, my generation has many strengths, but this is our Achilles’s heal. This is not to say that everyone is a quitter, but it is definitely true in a broad context!

      Thanks so much for sharing Ed!

  • Kim Melancon says:

    Often these character flaws stand between us and a meaningful relationship with God I believe it is sin past down through generations, parents don’t take their job serious enough the most important thing you will ever do in your life outside of being born again is to raise your children to be responsible adults. It’s your legacy..

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