Posts tagged C.S. Lewis
Hugh Hefner is a name, regardless of one’s worldview, that the vast majority of people are familiar with. One might call him the quintessential playboy, despite the fact that he is in his mid 80’s. He has been selling sex, lust, and smut for over fifty years. At what cost has he built his pornographic empire? I would argue, along with many others, at the devaluing of women and a disregard for the sacredness of sexuality. He has done much to debase sexuality; reducing it to an act based simply on titillating the senses.
Last week Hefner’s son, Marston Hefner, pleaded no contest to charges of domestic violence against his girlfriend and playboy playmate, Claire Sinclair. It seems apparent that there is a logical connection between Marston’s actions and the environment he was immersed in. This is not to say that due to Marston’s environment he had no choice but to abuse or act violently against his girlfriend. Instead, it is an affirmation that one’s worldview, or outlook on life, lead to behavior. That is, our attitudes, beliefs, and thoughts eventually lead to actions.
Marston Hefner was taught to devalue women, so should one be incredibly shocked when he does just that? Ideas have consequences. Worldview always leads to action. Thoughts and behaviors are inextricably linked. Why is there surprise when sex is desacralized, women are devalued, and violence results? Marston was just living out the tenets of his worldview, though this was not necessarily cognitively.
This axiom is not simply limited to just this specific incident. There is a bigger principle here. The worldview one espouses leads to certain behaviors. It is the simple law of cause and effect. The troubling part is many are surprised when a+b=c. What should we expect? As C.S. Lewis put it, “In a sort of ghastly simplicity we remove the organ and demand the function. We make men without chests and expect of them virtue and enterprise. We laugh at honor and are shocked to find traitors in our midst. We castrate and bid the geldings be fruitful.”
Whatever resides in the hearts of men always results in behavior to accompany those beliefs, attitudes, or thoughts. So if we encourage certain ideas or beliefs, such as desacralizing sexuality or reducing women to objects to gratify men, there is no reason to be surprised when these beliefs are acted upon.
Jesus put it this way in Mark 7. “For from within, out of people’s hearts, come evil thoughts, sexual immoralities, thefts, murders, adulteries, greed, evil actions, deceit, promiscuity, stinginess, blasphemy, pride, and foolishness. All these evil things come from within and defile a person.”
Thoughts lead to actions. What goes on inside will come out. We cannot escape the logical outworking of our worldview.
Walk good. Live wise. Be blessed.
Prayer is such a curious thing to examine and ponder. I have so many questions about how it works, considering God’s foreknowledge, sovereignty, and man’s free will. It is one of the more perplexing and fascinating aspects of the faith. It is incredibly complex, yet wonderfully simple. I do know that it works, though not always with the results I might have liked.
We are reminded in scripture to “pray without ceasing”, “let our requests be made known to God”, and that “we have not because we ask not.” Prayer is an important part of the Christian life and can be discussed from many different angles. In the future, I would like to explore the topic in greater detail, but for now let’s focus on a single aspect.
Have you ever examined your prayer life? What are you asking God for? I think sometimes I get it all wrong. I know God wants me to pour out my heart. I understand that nothing is off limits, but sometimes I think I approach prayer incorrectly.
If multitudes of people are praying for their favorite team in the World Series to win, whose prayer does God answer? Is it the team with the most advocates? What about the teen who is praying he gets accepted in a college out of state while his mother prays for him to remain at the local college? Who wins that prayer skirmish? Who wins when one job position is available and several people are all praying to land the job? Does God simply Eeny, meeny, miny, moe it?
Sometimes I pray the opposite of what other people pray. Is my prayer better than your prayer? Is there a hierarchy? Does God pick up the phone quicker and respond in a more expedient manner for some than others? I don’t think so. I know God hears everyone. I know God loves for us to speak with Him regularly. I also know that at times God loves to answer prayers with a resounding yes, and at other times deems it best to say no.
So who does God hear when people pray for different things? Why does He say yes and at times say no? Does God already know the answer before we ask Him? Sometimes it can all seem very confusing.
This is where I think we get confused and misunderstand much of the purpose behind prayer. Sure, God wants us to ask for things and tell Him our needs. But often, I think we approach God with a wish list and that is that. We call on Him as if He is some celestial genie ready to respond to our whims. Seems sort of narcissistic doesn’t it?
What if one of the biggest reasons for prayer were to get our wants, wishes, and desires in line with His own? What if prayer were more about affecting who we are than getting God to intervene? Perhaps approaching prayer that way would change the way we pray. Maybe then who wins the game wouldn’t matter so much. Maybe then Mom and Son would ask what God wants instead of what they want. Maybe then, we would consider whether taking a job pleases God and is beneficial in Him using our lives than simply gratifying for ourselves.
What if a big aspect of prayer were simply having a conversation and pouring out our hearts, and less about our wish list? Prayer is personal. When I talk to my wife, I don’t assail her with everything I want or things I need her to do. Much of the time I talk to her about my dreams, hopes, fears, wishes, happiness, sadness, regrets, concerns, etc. I talk to her about life and our closeness and intimacy grows. Maybe that is what prayer is supposed to be about more than anything else.
I am not saying we should stop asking God for things. I don’t feel like anything is off limits when it comes to talking with God. Yet, I think we would do well to remember that He is the all-powerful Creator of the universe and already knows ahead of time what we will be discussing with Him. Perhaps a large part of prayer is simply relational, just us spending some time talking to the One that loves us deeply. Also, just maybe, prayer has a lot to do with changing ourselves.
“I pray because I can’t help myself. I pray because I’m helpless. I pray because the need flows out of me all the time- waking and sleeping. It doesn’t change God- it changes me.” –C.S. Lewis
Walk good. Live wise. Be blessed.
What have you learned about prayer? Please share.
Recently, I was thinking about interesting or intellectual people, living or dead, who I would love to share a conversation with over a cup of coffee. This was a difficult task because there are so many different people I would be elated to meet at the local Starbucks, but I decided to narrow it down to ten. You will notice Jesus is not on this list. It seems obvious that he would be the first choice, so I did not add Him. Besides, I do talk with Him on a daily basis. My list of ten people I would love to have coffee with follows in no particular order.
- The Apostle Paul
- C.S. Lewis
- The All State Mayhem Guy
- Abraham Lincoln
- Ravi Zacharias
- Ted Dekker
- Norman Geisler
- Thomas Aquinas
- Jon Acuff
If by some chance, I were to be able to meet the Apostle Paul down at Hebrews coffee shop, here is what our conversation might be like:
Me: So, what are you drinking?
Paul: Coffee. I take it black as Tar…sus. That is a hometown joke. What are you having?
Me: A White Chocolate Mocha with extra whip.
Paul: That sounds like some sort of sissy drink.
Me: Nervous chuckle…So, tell me about your experience coming to know Christ.
Paul: Haven’t you read my writings? Well, it was pretty intense. I was walking down the Damascus road, and all of the sudden this blinding light practically knocks me on my rear, and I hear this booming voice. I have no idea what is happening, so I cry out, who are you? And the voice answers, “I am Jesus, who you are persecuting. It is hard for you to kick against the goads.”
Me: What’s a goad?
Paul: An epic word for a cattle prod.
Me: Oh, neat.
Paul: Yea, so I knew in that moment my life was changed. I felt instant remorse for all of my prior actions. Everything was different from that day on. I was a changed man. I felt free.
Me: Some people wonder if it was a hallucination or something you had.
Paul: Seriously? Me? With no previous history of mental illness? No, I know what I saw. You don’t lay your life down over some hallucination that you might question. Trust me, when you see Christ, you know you just had an experience with the transcendent.
Me: That is some story. Speaking of you dying, you sure suffered a lot for your faith.
Paul: Yea, but I counted it as a privilege. I was beaten within an inch of my life. Shipwrecked once, that was sort of fun. People were stuck listening to me preach. I was also imprisoned for preaching the Gospel. I just couldn’t stop sharing it. Everything goes back to when I met Christ. When you experience Him, everything changes.
Me: Your determination and love for God are so inspiring to millions of people.
Paul: So what persecution have you had to endure for Christ?
Me: Well, sometimes people talk about me and give me snarky looks.
Me: Yea, plus church is really early. We have to be up around 8:00 AM to go sit in a padded pew for a couple of hours.
Me: Finding the time to read the Bible and pray can be difficult as well. There is only so much time in a day. Then there are people always judging your motives and saying that you’re hypocritical these days. Yea, in todays times being a Christian and sharing your faith is hard.
Paul: Uh…yea. Sounds like it.
Me: So what do you think are some of the largest problems facing Christianity today?
Paul: People not engaging their minds in regards to their faith, along with a lack of discipline. It is really hard for me to understand how people can be lazy when they have experienced the Christ.
Me: That sounds exactly on the mark. You have really challenged me.
Paul: Glad to hear it! Well, I have to run now. It was good having a cup of Josephus with you.
Paul: Yes, Josephus. Aka. Cup of Joe. Sorry, that was another ancient joke.
Me: Awkward chuckle. Thanks Paul. So great to have met you!
Paul: You too. See that you walk circumspectly. The days are evil you know. Make sure you are redeeming the time. Blessings friend.
Walk good. Live wise. Be blessed.
If you could have coffee with anyone, living or dead, who would it be?
Surely, a loving God would not send a person to hell, would He? The answer to this question is a resounding no. On the converse, a loving God would not send a person to heaven, either. Then where would a loving God send someone? The truth is, God gives us all a choice. We get to pick our own eternal destination.
When God created mankind, He had two options. He could force everyone to embrace Him as God. He could have essentially made us automaton (I try to work that word into conversation every chance I get) robots with no choice but to love Him. This really isn’t love at all. Love comes from a choice. God’s other option was to enable us with the ability to choose to accept or reject Him, which He did.
God has clearly communicated that He is perfect. His standard is perfection. All of mankind has fallen dreadfully short of God’s standard. Count the times we do wrong in a day. Think about the thoughts we have in a day. I would be embarrassed if someone camped out in my mind for a day. We are fallen and in need of redemption. God knew we would be in this predicament so He sent Christ to die in our place. All we have to do is accept the fact that we are fallen, believe what Christ did for us, ask to be forgiven, trust and accept Him. Done. Do this and you have chosen Heaven.
When you get down to it, some people don’t want anything to do with Christ. To this, God says okay. It is not what He wants for anyone, but He loves us enough to let us choose. For God to send a person to Heaven to dwell with Him, when that person wants nothing to do with God, would be hell for that individual. God will not go against our will. He will not force a person who rejects Him into heaven to be with Him anymore than He will force a person who accepts Him into Hell.
So, will a loving God send a person to hell? Absolutely not, we choose where we want to spend eternity.
“There are only two kids of people in the end: those who say to God, “Thy will be done” and those to whom God says, in the end, “Thy will be done.” All that are in Hell, choose it. Without that self choice there could be no hell. No soul that seriously and constantly desires joy will ever miss it. Those who seek find. To those who knock it is opened.”
-C.S. Lewis, The Great Divorce
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